1. AVOID BRAGGING ABOUT AGE:
      Do not brag about your age, as it may imply immaturity or insecurity. Constant reminders or competitive comparisons with others in terms of age are unnecessary; focus on sharing experiences and insights instead. (Ephesians 2:9)
   Not of works, lest any man should boast.

2. PRIORITIZE RESPONSIBLE OR ACCOUNTABLE BEHAVIOR:
   Impress others through responsible conduct rather than engaging in unreasonable or irresponsible behaviour. Making wise decisions fosters respect and maturity, positively impacting those around you. Be responsible, accountable and prudent.

Proverbs 13:16
Every prudent man dealeth with knowledge: but a fool layeth open his folly.

3. Embrace Diversity in Relationships:
   Refrain from avoiding people solely based on age. Recognize that each person, regardless of age, brings unique perspectives and experiences to the table. Embrace diversity, fostering a learning environment across different age groups.

4. VALUE DIFFERENT OPINIONS:
   Avoid dismissing opinions or experiences based on age differences. Appreciate that everyone’s thoughts hold value, irrespective of their age. Refrain from criticizing others’ thoughts based on age

5. LIVE IN THE PRESENT:
   Resist dwelling on past achievements excessively; it may give the impression of being stuck in the past. Embrace new experiences, live in the present, and eagerly anticipate the future for continuous personal growth.
2 Corinthians 5:17
Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.

6. LET GO OF WORRIES:
   Follow the wisdom from Matthew 6:34; don’t worry about others’ opinions or the uncertainties of tomorrow. A balanced and worry-free approach to life demonstrates true maturity.

We need to understand that true maturity and personal growth manifest through wisdom, empathy, and a balanced life. Prioritize showing genuine respect and consideration for others. Avoid treating people with disdain, also positive interactions often leave a lasting impact.

Note: It is unnecessary to go around broadcasting your age. Instead, pray for evidence of your hard work and virtuous actions, reducing the need for constant explanations.

As the years progress, let the desire for a deeper connection with God grow. Live with purpose, letting your yes be yes and your no be no. Understand that pleasing everyone is impossible, so confidently express your decisions when necessary, backed by the evidence of doing what is right.

Staying open-minded, embracing technology, and maintaining a modern, active lifestyle contribute to a more vibrant and ageless demeanour.

*Prayer Point:* Psalm 71:9 – “Cast me not off in the time of old age; forsake me not when my strength faileth.”

Happy Birthday to the writer, Omolola Funmilayo Edokpayi and all January celebrants. May this year bring joy, fulfilment, and continuous growth in wisdom. (Amen).