One of the things I learned from my late stepmother is that she didn’t mind her business. Yes, you heard me right. My late stepmother was that rare soul who refused to look away when things went wrong.

In today’s world, people are quick to chant the proverb: “Bá mi nà ọmọ mi, ko de inu olomo.” (Help me discipline my child? Never!). The idea of correcting another person’s child is now seen as an invitation to trouble. But back in the days of my stepmother, that proverb was meaningless. She did not believe in minding her business when it came to values, discipline, and the well-being of those around her.

I am not saying people should not mind their business. It all depends on the area where you are minding your business.

She was the kind of woman who would see a child going astray and intervene, even if that child was not hers. If she spot a young boy disrespecting an elder, she would call him out: “Come here, young man! Is this how you were raised?” She would speak the truth, back to back, without fear or favour. It didn’t matter if the child’s mother frowned or the father grumbled. To her, wrong was wrong, and silence in the face of wrong was even worse.

She particularly hated disrespect. Why growing up, I remembered she was the one that stopped some of my younger ones from calling me by name without adding ‘Aatii’ which is a respectful Yoruba term for female elders, she addresses issues immediately. She wouldn’t wait for tomorrow to come before correcting disrespectful behaviours. To her, respect was fundamental, and she made sure we understood that.

This wasn’t just limited to children. She would correct adults too, questioning unethical behaviours, confronting injustices. In her eyes, a person’s immediate family did not define their responsibility to society. We were all part of a larger family, and keeping quiet about what was wrong meant being complicit in it.

But in today’s society, this kind of boldness is almost extinct. People now tread carefully, afraid of stepping on toes. Why should I correct someone else’s child? What if their parents insult me? So, we turn our faces the other way, we walk past wrongdoing, and we let children grow wild because “it’s not our business.” My stepmother never subscribed to that philosophy, and now I realize how valuable her stance was.

Nowadays, correcting a child doesn’t go down well with their mother, especially because of what our society is turning into and the way people wickedly correct other people’s children. However, when someone corrects a child with love, we should not take it as an offense. It is for our own good and for the child’s benefit.

This lesson I learned from her has taught me that when we see something wrong, we need to address it with goodness and God’s happiness.

Happy Mother’s Day to all the amazing mothers out there! May your love and wisdom continue to shape generations to come. Amen

Written and Illustrated by Omolola Funmilayo Edokpayi

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1. Lent lasts for 40 days, representing the 40 days that Jesus spent fasting in the wilderness https://www.dynamiccatholic.com/lent/about-lent.html?srsltid=AfmBOoqYQ9dpneqHH1sNPrZFVUsrCeqO1scCxXUNOERbTMLNgZP7nKFJ
2. Lent falls on different dates each year, and its observance varies among Christians worldwide.
3. Not all Christians observe lent. Catholics, Orthodox Christians, and some Protestants observe it.
4. Lent begins on Ash Wednesday, a day of repentance and reflection.
5. On Ash Wednesday, ashes are placed on foreheads as a sign of humility and mortality.
6. Lent is a time for fasting, prayer, and almsgiving.
7. Sundays are not counted in the 40 days of Lent.
8. Lent is a period of preparation for celebrating the Lord’s Resurrection at Easter.
9. Lent ends on Holy Saturday, the day before Easter Sunday.
10. The colours used during Lent enrich the spiritual experience by evoking emotions and serving as visual reminders of Jesus’ suffering, sacrifice, and ultimate victory over death—especially during Holy Week.
11. Purple is the primary colour of Lent; it also represents the purple robe that Pontius Pilate placed on Jesus before His crucifixion, reminding us of His royalty as King.
12. On Palm Sunday, the priest wears bright red, symbolising Jesus’ impending sacrifice on the Cross.
13. White, used on Easter, represents the joy of Jesus’ resurrection.
14. Meat is traditionally avoided on Fridays during Lent.https://www.catholic.com/tract/top-20-questions-and-answers-about-lent
15. Lenten fasting is meant to promote spiritual discipline, not to serve as a dieting method.
16. Giving up something for Lent is a form of sacrifice and self-denial.
17. Lent is a time to reflect on Jesus’ suffering and sacrifice.
18. Prayer is emphasized during Lent as a way to strengthen one’s relationship with God.
19. Almsgiving (charity) is encouraged during Lent, with a focus on helping the needy.
20. Lent is a call to repentance and turning back to God.
21. Confession and reconciliation are important aspects of Lenten observance.
22. Mothering Sunday falls during Lent—specifically on the fourth Sunday—and is also known as Laetare Sunday.
23. The Stations of the Cross are often prayed during Lent.
24. Holy Monday (sometimes referred to in some programs as the “Monday Day Program”) is part of the week leading up to Easter.
25. The final week of Lent, known as Holy Week, includes significant days such as Palm Sunday, Maundy Thursday, and Good Friday.
26. Palm Sunday marks the beginning of Holy Week.
27. Holy Thursday, also known as Maundy Thursday, commemorates the Last Supper of Jesus and His disciples.
28. Maundy Thursday also recalls the washing of the feet, symbolising service and humility.
29. Good Friday commemorates Jesus’ crucifixion and death.
30. Holy Saturday is a day of waiting and reflection before Easter.
31. Easter Sunday celebrates Jesus’ resurrection and marks the end of Lent.
32. Lent is not just about personal sacrifice; it is also an opportunity for spiritual growth.
33. Giving up bad habits during Lent can lead to lasting positive change.
34. Some churches hold Lenten retreats or special services to deepen spiritual focus.
35. Lent is a time for personal and spiritual renewal.
36. Some Christians follow the Daniel Fast during Lent, eating only plant-based foods.
37. Lent reminds us that suffering can lead to glory, just as the cross led to the resurrection.
38. Although Lent is a period of penance, it ultimately ends with a great celebration.
39. Fasting during Lent reminds us of our dependence on God.
40. The liturgies of Holy Week—including the Easter Vigil on Holy Saturday—are among the most significant in the Church calendar.

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You claim to love someone, yet your words leave scars,
Love shouldn’t hurt like shattered stars.
You promise forever, yet treat them like a phase,
Love isn’t fleeting; it stands through the days.

You claim to love someone, yet your hands push away,
Love isn’t silence when there’s more to say.
You vow to listen, yet ignore their cries,
Love is attention, not convenient lies.

You claim to love someone, yet your eyes still roam,
Love stays rooted; it doesn’t search for home.
You swear they’re enough, yet you crave something new,
Love isn’t restless; it stays loyal and true.

You claim to love someone, yet trust wears thin,
Love isn’t real when deceit creeps in.
You speak of patience but demand too much,
Love doesn’t rush; it moves with a touch.

You claim to love someone, yet your presence is rare,
Love doesn’t vanish; it’s always there.
You say you protect, yet leave them exposed,
Love isn’t careless; it guards and holds.

You claim to love someone, yet let wounds remain,
Love doesn’t nurture unnecessary pain.
You swear you cherish, yet take them for granted,
Love isn’t selfish; it gives what is wanted.

You claim to love someone, yet flee when it’s tough,
Love isn’t easy, but real love is enough.
You call them home, yet wander away,
Love doesn’t falter when skies turn gray.

You claim to love someone, yet let them feel small,
Love lifts higher, it won’t let them fall.
You promise honesty, yet truths stay untold,
Love is transparent, not secrets grown cold.

You claim to love someone, yet your love feels cold,
Love isn’t distant; it’s warm to hold.
You whisper sweet words, yet actions betray,
Love isn’t fleeting; it chooses to stay.

You promise a future, yet leave them in doubt,
Love isn’t silence; it speaks things out.
You swear devotion, yet turn away,
Love doesn’t waver; it finds a way.

God is love only in HIM we can exhibit true love. https://sctcoc.org/love-is-the-greatest-christian-blog/

By Omolola F. Edokpayi

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As we step into this new year, let us recognize that it is not just a calendar shift but a divine invitation to something greater. The year is loaded with four major things, that are all part of God’s perfect plan for us. Each of these elements plays a vital role in shaping our journey and drawing us closer to God’s perfect plan. Let’s uncover these four treasures together and learn how to embrace them with unwavering faith.

1. OPPORTUNITIES

The year is loaded with countless opportunities. Whether in your career, ministry, relationship or personal journey. Opportunities will arise, but they are reserved for those who are prepared and ready to embrace them. Preparation is crucial because these opportunities can come at any time. It may come early, mid-year, or even as late as December. You know what will happen if you lack the necessary skills, wisdom, or qualifications to seize them? To avoid missing out, start preparing now. Whether it’s acquiring a certificate, learning a new skill, or growing personally, take action today.
Some opportunities do not require elaborate preparations. Sometimes, it’s simply about cultivating discipline, gaining a basic skill, or devoting time to prayer. Prayer can be transformative, opening doors you never imagined. Praying for divine guidance or connections can lead you to individuals or networks that will help shape your future. The beauty of divine timing is that the people who will influence your life may not yet be in your life, but you could meet them this year and their impact could be profound.
Opportunities often present themselves in unexpected ways. A minor change could lead to a breakthrough. For instance, relocation or a new career path may feel daunting at the start of the year, but with intentional preparation, prayer, and the right people, by the end of the year, you could find yourself in a much better place.

2. BLESSING

The year is loaded with blessings. Every day is a gift from God, and this year is not exempted. Expect God’s favour to rest upon you in unexpected ways, whether through answered prayers, restored relationships, new beginnings, or financial provision. His blessings extend beyond material wealth, they also include peace, joy, wisdom, and His abiding presence.
Stay anchored in His love and embrace these blessings with a heart full of gratitude. Recognizing and accepting them sets a positive tone for the year. https://www.christianity.com/wiki/christian-life/discover-the-million-little-miracles-hidden-in-your-everyday-life.html

James 1:17 reminds us that every perfect gift comes from above.

3. LESSONS

The year ahead is filled with experiences, both good and challenging. These experiences will offer valuable lessons and It is essential to remain open to learning. Each encounter, whether pleasant or difficult, holds the potential to shape you for the future.
Be attentive to what life is teaching you. Be open to lessons because people and events that cross your path this year will teach you something. Every experience is an opportunity for growth. Proverbs 1:5 tells us, “Let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance.”

4. CHALLENGES

The year is loaded with challenges. I know many people will not like this. Challenges are inevitable but serve an important purpose. They often refine us, strengthen our faith, and push us to depend on God more fully. James 1:2-4 reminds us to embrace trials with joy, for they produce perseverance and maturity.
In the face of challenges, God will strengthen your faith and build resilience. Just as gold is refined through fire, you will emerge stronger and more refined. https://www.christianity.com/videos/video-answers/thriving-in-the-midst-of-trials.html Embrace each challenge knowing that God is using it to grow you and bring you closer to Him.
Growth often requires discomfort, and this year may stretch you in ways you didn’t anticipate. While this path of growth may be uncomfortable, it is necessary. Through personal reflection, spiritual disciplines, and new experiences, expect to evolve and mature. Trust that God is using each moment to prepare you for the next.
Moreover, God is ready to equip you with everything you need to thrive. Strength for trials, wisdom for decisions, and peace to guide you. His faithfulness is unchanging, and His presence is constant. As we walk in His will, we can rest assured that He will never leave us nor forsake us.

In Conclusion, as we enter this new year, let us embrace the opportunities, recognize God’s blessings, learn from every experience, and face the challenges with unwavering faith. If we trust God and lean on His Word, we can navigate the year with purpose, gratitude, and assurance. Stay prepared, pray diligently https://www.oshawkins.com/sermons/new-years-day-crossing-over…into-a-new-year/, and remain faithful. This year is filled with possibilities, and how you respond will shape your journey toward a successful fulfilment.

Written and illustrated by Omolola F. Edokpayi

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Life’s challenges and past mistakes may sometimes feel burdensome, leaving you questioning your value, purpose, and even your place in God’s plan. Perhaps you’ve made choices you regret, experienced broken relationships, or been hurt by the consequences of others’ actions. Yet, God’s Word offers hope: your worth is not determined by your past but by His unchanging love for you. His purpose for your life remains valid, no matter how far you may have strayed. How do you move beyond the guilt, heal from the shame, and rediscover the woman God created you to be? This article explores practical steps to reclaim your identity, rebuild your faith, and shine as the virtuous, valuable woman God sees in you.

Rediscovering your worth after making mistakes is a journey of grace, forgiveness, and identity in Christ.

Here are practical steps to help you.

1. Acknowledge Your Mistakes

God does not define you by your mistakes. Acknowledge them but refuse to live under guilt.

Romans 8:1: “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”

2. Repent and Seek God’s Forgiveness

Confess your sins to God sincerely, knowing He is always ready to forgive.

1 John 1:9: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

3. Embrace God’s Love and Grace

Your worth is not based on your actions but on God’s unconditional love for you.

Romans 5:8: “But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

4. Renew Your Mind with God’s Truth

Replace lies about your unworthiness with God’s word.

2 Corinthians 5:17: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.”

5. Discover Your Identity in Christ

Always remember and have the consciousness that you are a child of God, chosen and loved.

1 Peter 2:9: “But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for His own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvellous light.”

6. Learn from Your Mistakes and Move Forward

Mistakes are growth opportunities. Trust God to turn them into testimonies.

Romans 8:28: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.”

7. Focus on Your Purpose

Rediscovering your worth involves walking in the purpose God created you for.

Jeremiah 29:11: “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

HERE ARE ANSWERS TO THE QUESTIONS GOING THROUGH YOUR MIND

YES; YOU CAN:

Yes, you can still be trusted and tested. God can still count on you.
Yes, both God and men can still search you out.
Yes, you can still be a shoulder for others to lean on.
You can still be a woman of value, virtue, and good reputation. Men can still rely on you and confidently say they trust you without hesitation.

You can still guide children and young girls, helping them find their path.
Yes, can still trust yourself and take pride in the gifts God has given you.
You can love unconditionally, free from the shadows of your past.
Yes, you can still marry the man you will always thank God for, without complaints or regrets.
You can still have a home and marriage that others admire and aspire to emulate.
Women, wives, mothers, and even mothers-in-law can still look up to you and pray to live a life modelled after yours. Many ladies can still find hope and inspiration in the life you live.
Yes, you can still be a beacon of light, a woman of faith, and an instrument of God’s glory.

Yes, God can still be your priority and everything you need.
Your heart can still be a dwelling place for God, a home where He resides and reigns supreme.
You can shine your light and share the good news of God with others.

In all, you need to make up your mind and follow Christ.https://proverbs31.org/read/devotions/full-post/2023/08/21/jesus-can-heal-that-too

RELEVANT BIBLE TO HOLD ON TO.

1. 2 Corinthians 5:17 – New Creation in Christ
   “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”
   Encouragement to let go of the past and embrace your new identity in Christ.
2. Psalm 37:23-24 – God Upholds the Righteous
   “The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way. Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down: for the Lord upholds him with his hand.”
   A reminder that God remains faithful and will guide and restore you.
3. Isaiah 41:10 – God’s Assurance
   “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.”
4. Matthew 5:14-16 – Be the Light of the World
   “You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden.”
   A call to shine brightly and inspire others through your life.
5. Titus 2:3-5 – Guidance for Women
   “Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live… to teach what is good. Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husband so that no one will malign the word of God.”
6. Philippians 4:13 – Strength Through Christ
   “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
7. Ephesians 2:10 – Created for Good Works
   “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.”

Written and Illustrated by Omolola Edokpayi F.

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